First, we currently have basic membership and won't be able to view mail from you unless you have the guest-reading privilege. However we're often online during the day, so please use IM for initial contact. We are a FWB benefit couple and seeking another couple in NJ to have our first couples adventure with. This would most likely be a soft-swap, but we're open to more if the chemistry is right. We'd also be interested in meeting a VERY girthy male to please her. So if you have a big, fat BBC or BWC, feel free to reach out to us and include your thickness dimensions (e.g. circumference). As a point of reference, he is almost 6" in circumference and we're looking for a much thicker guy. We have limited IMs and will not reply to single males who don't include this information. Please be real and honest with your stats and we'll extend the same courtesy to you.