I am a well-educated, ambitious, and driven professional. I am a well-traveled, cultured, kind man. I am a fun and very generous lover and can only have a good time if I know my partner(s) are having a good time. I was in the lifestyle on and off for over 20 years before I got married. Now I’m divorced and looking to play again. I'm open to a wide variety of bedroom activities and am up for trying most things at least once, so I really like to tailor play to my partners. Open to various kinks and have plenty of D/s experience. I'm a natural switch, but I have much more experience as a Dom. Then again, when I sub, I have a great time too. My biggest fantasy is to have a regular couple I play with that I was actually friends with. We would go out to dinner, entertainment, maybe even vacations. In public, no one would know all of the nasty fun we have in private...I'm able to carry a conversation with anyone and am a great plus one for any event from a barbecue to a black tie gala, so let's chat. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to any/all legal remedies available to me.

My Ideal Person Ideally, I am looking for a bi m/f couple for shenanigans, but I strongly prefer women to men, so straight couples are ALWAYS welcome!

I would also LOVE a single girl for fun together and/or with others and it would be great to eventually have a life partner that enjoys the lifestyle as much as I do.

Open to others as well.